This is my promise to you, cybersphere. I, Nefny, do promise to try and be a little less cynical in my daily goings around town and will try and see the light side of life and people, again. In order to maintain this change in perspective and hopefully help my optimism blossom, I will keep an occasional series of blogs about things I love and why i love them …in no apparent order, on no apparent theme, with no apparent reason. Just things I love.
Number 1. Kurt Russell
5 words. Big. Trouble. In. Little. China. A great film, made even greater by Kurt’s willingness to send himself up. Bruce Willis would have been too knowing, van Damme and his ilk too self-believing but Russell MAKES this film. He’s a trucker, for godsake! When will action stars realise that they genre that they work in is high camp and by aiming to promote some sort of zen message (I mean you Seagal), they make themselves ridiculous? When? This is surely one of the biggest concerns that our planet currently faces!
But…Kurt. He’s just wonderful in this film, and pretty much everything else too. Point in hand – he turns up in films which I’d forgotten he was in and its always a nice surprise! Stargate anyone? Had too much of James Spader? Lets cut to a shot of Kurt to liven things up. Even my boyfriend greets him like a long lost darts partner in the pub; ‘Ah, Mr Russell, forgot you were in this’. We know there are some quality moments ahead. The fact that he topped the Onion’s underrated actor list says it all. Never won a major acting award? Who cares when you’ve got some hot wheels and are welcome at every roadhouse in the state……..
No one else would be as good in The Thing or Escape from LA. He genuinely seems to have fun in his roles. He is the thinking woman’s Patrick Swayze. All hail the Kurt!
5 things to do on the tube whenyou’ve finished your book, your ipod has run out and the games on your mobile are crap (this list may expand as I discover more….)
1. Play which of your fellow tubefarers would you eat first if the carriage got stuck underground for a long period of time and you went mad and couldn’t get out and had to eat someone to survive?
2. Play which of your fellow tubefarers could you beat in a fight? (Perhaps the same answer as question number 1)
3. If your opposite passenger was an animal, which animal would they be.
4. Bet on whether the new entry to your carriage will make it to the seat in time or…. oh no….fall over into adjacent passenger’s lap.
5. Play ‘spot the stylist’ shoe’. This involves browsing whichever shit free paper is lying around at your feet, identifying starlets on the red carpet who are wearing shoes that are visibly too big for them (usually a big gap at the heel of the shoe which should be filled with ankle). So called as they are clearly the quarry of some harrassed stylist’s assistant who has picked up the nearest stillie and shoved on starlet’s foot to complete the ensemble, regardless of shoe size – foot incompatibility (see visual).
3 hours later, numb jawed, pop-eared and stump-footed, we understood why.
We understood why there were so many hiking shops in Ambleside, a quaint town on the shore of Lake Windermere, fringed by majestic mountains (well, they’re probably hills, but half way up, they feel like mountains.) These hiking shops were for ill equipped morons like us, who would never even attempt a hillock again without reinforced ankle boots and crampons. Instead, we made our first ascent in the most sophisticated urban garb:
Me – New Look plimsolls – designed to be used only in conjunction with a primary school gym apparatus -check!
Cream mac from Gap kids – too tight in the arm sockets – check
Cropped jeans – check
Snazzy T- shirt – check
Him – shinier than shiny bottomed trainers – check
Hooded top – check
Map – for losers
Kendal mint cake or other sustinence – no, ta.
The picture of my shoe may give you some idea of the relative success and comfort of our all-terrain wear.
The aches, pains and fearful looks of the locals were worth it however, for what turned out to be a blissful weekend in the Lakes, unmarred by the age long English traditions of shit weather and lousy traffic. I originate from the North (the other side of the Peaks) and enjoyed pretending that I held some sort of mystic connection with the area – in reality, getting out of the E10 ghetto made me realise how far I’d moved from my roots (man) and become a creature of the city, like an etiolated baby rat or mangy bin- fox.
I think Bill Bryson wrote that what the North has that the South doesn’t is ‘big skies’. Big, but also very bloody dark. Driving around Kendal (the nearest thing to a big city) at 9pm was like navigating an ancient mineshaft, such was the lack of streetlight. It made me believe in ghosts, but good friendly ghosts that live in the hills and watch over lonely travellers…oh dear God. The main thing about the lack of light is that it demonstrates that up North, even now, things are left to trust and instinct, including road safety.
But I’m not here to rally against the technocratic, superior South; nor am I here to embellish that dreadful old cliche of the philistine North. London is wonderful, irritating, witty, edgy, noisy, self-centred etc etc, but here are some reasons why the North still rules, gathered from my brief 2 nighter in Cumbria:
1) The Dunkirk spirit lives on – at 2 am on our first night, I’m woken by hushed tones in the corridor – ‘there’s ever such a strong smell of smoke near number 15’. Everybody up and out. I barely register any of the pasty faces in the hallway and am relieved when I can crawl back to bed. My fellow guests view the occasion differently – having used the false alarm as a springboard into conversation (‘did you smell it?’ ‘well, no but my wife saw some youths burning something outside earlier’), they happily stand around, having unhurried ‘getting to know you’ chats in assorted pyjama and anorak combinations, till the dawn chorus strikes up. Turning adversity into opportunity.
2) People are bigger, ruddier and can handle the cold. Women and children included. Never have I seen such a proliferance of shirt sleeves and bare arms in arctic conditions.
3) No place for a London face. Smile at someone in the big smoke and you’re a perv or a loony. Up here, it is rude not to exchange a howdoo with fellow wayfarers. By the end of my stay, I was crossing the road to make eye contact and establish smiling terms with anyone in the vicinity.
4) I don’t care if its a lousy truism – the air is better. The difference between breathing up there and breathing down here is like drinking Malvern sparkling after years of drinking….piss with cigarette butts in it. That’s how strongly I feel. My boyfriend got drunk on the Friday and was up at 6am on the Saturday, hangover or no, such was his faith in the restorative powers of fresh air.
5) Fashion is secondary, which is how it should be. We only learnt this through experience (see shoe photograph), but now I can’t wait to buy some of those shell-suity legwarmer things (gaiters?) and a cagoole.
It was nice to go somewhere and be the tourist, to get things wrong and do so very publically. It was nice to go somewhere which boycotted 24 hour culture, where the food hatch was battoned down at 9pm sharp of an evening. It was nice to go somewhere where the pavements were smooth, not an uneven patchwork of tarmac and brickwork.
Do I give an overview to the none of you who are reading? Is it worth introducing myself to myself? Several life coaches would wager it a very useful exercise, but I’m not in therapy. At the moment. I’m fine.
This blog is for all the thoughts that materialise to me as I go down escalators in John Lewis, make pretend phone calls in dodgy late night scenarios, lose focus at work. For all the enthusiastic bonhomie fuelled dialogues with friends – (lesssmakeadocumentary! lesssswriteaplay!) – which tragically tail off, due to ‘other commitments’, restlessness, fear? For all the receipts and backs of bills that harbour my half baked observations, scribbled down on tube journeys. These billets- murs taunt me for a few days, point up my lack of writerly motivation and then recede from view. Their wasted bodies are discovered only months later on the annual hunt for a safety pin at the bottom of the handbag. I cower in shame. They need a good home. Hence my blog. This will be their sanctuary. So this is about anything I want it to be about – doolallies, mostly.